For the record and in the hopes of helping others in the future, I did send my files to Mark and he pointed me in the right direction.
For others who may have issues getting their memory chip to work correctly, it's essential to remember that although bits 13 and 14 are the ones controlling our load and output, the order of those bits can be confusing. I was assigning to a demux address as sel=address[13..14] however, that had them in the wrong order. Since you can't do sel=address[14..13] another method must be found to assign the bits in that order.
Hope that helps anyone else who runs into the issues I had.